When a woman gets really angry when you want her to take re…
When a woman gets really angry when you want her to take responsibility or just show a minimum of accountability, understand that in her mind what she hears is "you are not beautiful enough to get away with this."
Beauty is the magic ingredient that allows women to ditch all responsibility and accountability.
If a woman is beautiful enough, there's a chance she doesn't even know what taking responsibility even means. It was just never necessary.
This is the polite way to say this by the way. You are welcome.
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In the moment they may get upset but long term they'll respect you for maintaining boundaries, standing up for yourself.
Without communication, relationships crumble.
Avoiding conflict is the worst thing you can do long term.
Eventually resentment will build in one of you.
Right. I was just trying to find a good way to express what for me was an epiphany, even though it may be very obvious:
The privilege women enjoy is the reason for their very common disdain of accountability and responsibility.
My sudden realization was that to them it feels insulting to be asked to be accountable. It means "you aren't THAT hot. Your beauty isn't enough to privilege you to the point where you are above all accountability."