I tend to align with this thinking. Mainly because it’s cle…
I tend to align with this thinking. Mainly because it’s clear to me that disconnection from the heart is so prevalent. To see each other as subjects of the heart rather than objects is a good direction. Not that there aren’t good ideas in stoicism or Buddhism of course, the writer is I think just trying to make a point. This reminds me of what they call attachment parenting nowadays, though when my kids were young I mothered that way naturally without it being called something. https://x.com/oldbooksguy/status/1859261238251082221
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yes... buddhism and stoicism can be forms of escapism
I think a lot about how the term "cool" influenced the world and how it originated from people doing terrible things without being affected by it.
where did the word "cool" originate?
The concept of "cool" as we understand it today, often associated with detachment and indifference, has a complex history. The modern usage of "cool" in the context of emotional detachment and social approval originated in the early 20th century, particularly in the African American community.
1. **Early Origins**: The term "cool" initially emerged in the 19th century, primarily in the context of temperatures and physical sensations. However, its cultural and social connotations developed over time, particularly in the early 20th century.
2. **Jazz and Hipster Culture**: The modern concept of "cool" gained prominence in the 1920s and 1930s within the jazz scene. Jazz musicians and their fans used "cool" to describe not only the music but also a certain attitude of detachment, calmness, and nonchalance. This usage was further popularized by the hipster culture of the 1940s and 1950s, which emphasized a laid-back, unaffected demeanor.
3. **Post-War Era**: After World War II, "cool" became more widespread in American culture, symbolizing a relaxed, detached, and unemotional attitude. This was partly a reaction to the intense emotions and traumas experienced during the war.
4. **Cultural Influence**: The term "cool" continued to evolve, influenced by various cultural movements, including the Beat Generation of the 1950s and the counterculture of the 1960s. These movements further entrenched the idea of "cool" as a desirable state of being, often associated with nonconformity and emotional detachment.
In your context, you mention how the term "cool" might have originated from people doing terrible things without being affected by it. While this isn't the direct origin, it's true that the concept of "cool" has sometimes been associated with a kind of emotional numbness or indifference, which can be seen as problematic.
Regarding your other comments, it's interesting to note how the concept of "heart-centeredness" contrasts with the idea of "cool." Heart-centeredness emphasizes emotional awareness, vulnerability, and genuine connection, which can be seen as the opposite of the detachment and indifference often associated with being "cool."[1][5]
I never looked into the history of the term. In my mind it is very much connected to Hollywood killers. People who kill as if it were nothing.