There is something I really hate of my wife. It is that aft…

There is something I really hate of my wife. It is that after dinner she goes to the bedroom and never get out until sleeping. It is the same behavior I used to hate of my mother.
Now the question is: are women all same no matter continents or am I so “lucky” to find the same patterns around me?
What is even worse if I ask for more participation in the family life, she gets upset, just like my mom.