If you aren’t a nice person, I don’t want to hear a single …

You should elaborate more on this one🤔

Another way to put it might be “be the change you want to see in the world.”

I used to be an anarchist activist. I believe that elimination of the state will come as a product of owning one’s responsibility to self-govern. But most advocates are shitty people who became anarchists because they are “bad.” That will never work out.