aesthetics is the source of order your aesthetics organize …

aesthetics is the source of order
your aesthetics organize your life
aesthetics implies a search for beauty, which is to say, *a harmony of features*
finding beauty in the life of a stranger, say, by reading someone's biography and finding the concert of events in that person's life and discovering those as _correctly_ ordered, means also that there comes an inflection point in an individual's life where he ponders the past and the future and decides what it means to live a life worth living.
when you decide on your life's aesthetics, you decide your life

you either take the time to build your garden or you continue floating like a dandelion